Saturday, September 20, 2008 1 comments

ORIGINALITY-SWINGS OF LIFE!!!


Life always comes in wrong way; this is what common thinking of a human. We humans are made up of feelings, sentiments and lots of emotions. But when we join a different environment we face confused state with lots of difficulties to set ourselves with the present environment. It happens with almost all of us. And in such situations we will hide our originality. Many times I have seen people with dual personalities, two mind states, lots of confusion but its human nature. one can not be original with new environment when he/she is at beginning stage and one will start hiding his/her weaknesses, dissimilarities and I can say originality.

And when such situation occurs, he will not be able to balance himself with the present and that’s the most critical situation I can say. When he will enter in the organization or say new environment he will start behaving in very formal way or say improper way or say different way. Let’s take an example:

One of my friends mailed me his problem that he has recently joined some organization and he is facing the same situation I have mentioned above. He is extreme introvert and he is behaving as he is damn extrovert. And he is facing so many problems by this. His image is totally different from his actual or say original image in his organization and one should be original as far as professional world is concern. He is depressed and can not sleep as well. But it’s normal thing as per my opinion. When a baby born, baby will cry a lot in first few days and than baby will balance the situation .but when he will move to some other environment he/she will face the same situation he has faced previously.

But problem comes momentarily in life so either live it or leave it, that’s the only solution I have. And one more thing when days are going harder in life never say “WHY ME GOD” always say “TRY ME GOD”, that is the best way to face the life and success will surely kiss your legs one day.
That’s it.
Sunday, September 14, 2008 0 comments

Dilapidated Feelings!!!


Hello friends,
After a long time I am here to share something with you people my respected readers and motivators.
Friends,
sometimes-in life a person performs dual personality and in such situation, he cannot differentiate which is the original one. Sometimes we disparately want something and something inside us will resist us to do that.
Let me give one particular name to both the personality.

ARDENT FEELINGS-this person is desperate and cannot wait for proper time
CLEVERNESS-This person is intelligent and always thinks before a step

Now I am trying to put a conversation between these two persons in front of you. Ardent feelings are forcing the person to express his thoughts in front of his love and cleverness is resisting him to do that and asking for some time. Love is the word every single person aware with. However, when two souls fall in love, both should have good understanding. But love is becoming sophisticated and formal day by day. If both have same thinking with feelings in heart, that it is a fertile situation. But it’s a rare case. Now days one is having an ARDENT FELINGS and Other Is HAVING CLEVERNESS. One soul only can think by heart and other can think by brain only. In such situation problem occurs. Love is not allowed in our culture and religion is locked in temple, mosque, and church because of this reason.

Sometimes I can hear conversation between my conscious and sub conscious mind. Let me compare conscious mind with cleverness and sub conscious mind with Ardent Feeling. Here is the conversation.

ARDENT FEELINGS: - go there right now!
CLEVERNESS:-Do not do that. You should not go there.
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ARDENT FEELINGS: - Go and tell her I LOVE YOU!
CLEVERNESS: - she will take it in wrong way.Dont go!
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-I do not care. Now I cannot wait.
CLEVERNESS:-Do not get frustrated. It is not advisable.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-But How long I should wait?
CLEVERNESS:-It will spoil your image.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-I do not care.
CLEVERNESS: - what about people around? What will they think?
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-give them a damn.
CLEVERNESS:-Are you mad? Relax and think before a step. It is not beneficial.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-Benefit is not a word for love.
CLEVERNESS: What about your reputation.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-I do not care about my reputation.
CLEVERNESS:-You will become a looser.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-I will accept the situation without an argue.
CLEVERNESS:-you will feel guilt in future for sure my friend.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-It is ok. Let me die once. Its painful .I am dying day by day.
CLEVERNESS:-Please wait for proper time please.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-No, I do not have energy now.
CLEVERNESS:-wait for some time. For long time, benefit.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-don’t I have right to do what I want to do?
CLEVERNESS:-Think about your future.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-Ok.I will wait for some time.
CLEVERNESS:-Good.You are intelligent .Aren’t you?
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-is this intelligence? You think so.
CLEVERNESS:-wait and watch. What will you get my dear friend?
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-But, listen to me at least.
CLEVERNESS:-No I do not want to listen your argues anymore. Just wait and watch I say.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-Wait for what? What you want me to show?
CLEVERNESS:-You do not worry and relax. I will handle everything.
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ARDENT FEELINGS:-“EVERYTHING” means what? I have lost my “EVERYTHING” along with her long time back.
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Have a look around you. You will find numbers of dilapidated buildings inside a dead heart. A person should have Ardent feelings otherwise, he will become a dead body. Practically he is alive but he cannot move. He will become motionless. Ardent feeling is a looser and cleverness has habit to win the game. Consolation is a mixture of ointment with some ego.
For better future, friendship is most important need between ardent feelings and cleverness, if it is possible than the word war will disappear from the dictitionary.We all are living in world of technology. We now have enough space to share our feelings along with some cleverness on the world of internet. So think about you ardent feelings with your cleverness before a step.That’s it.
 
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