Today is the last day of the last month of year 2009, or may be a new beginning of a new journey. Me as a person,not that much mature to deal with certain situations but somehow I have survived. Every cross road gives you 3 different directions; one is something you think you should not follow because it’s tough, second that you wish other should follow and last one is the neutral one. Keep going on the same track. It’s obvious for lot many to follow the 3rd one; because it’s cheaper and most importantly its safer.
Situation is like rubber band that you have at your home; the harder you stretch the more it hurts. Life is just like a table tennis ball, which cannot stay at neutral position. But a problem is just an origin of solutions. Among 365 days, 360 days will act as 360 degrees, your life will rotate and the remaining five days will provide you time to sit and talk to yourself and decide what you have gained and what you have lost or shall I say compromised?
World is like a carom board and your life is like a striker. You will try to achieve all your goals anyhow and at the end of life you will find yourself alone when you will be at the winning position. What I want to convey is, last whole year or say 360 degrees you have survived were just few appreciable achievements but it is always starting position, when you end the race as you are following circular life.
From tomorrow onwards we will again restart our circular journey and again we will go through those 360 degrees but replication is an initial perfection and so you will get used to the path and that used to situation is very much known as “maturity”. Again we will have situation where lack of knowledge, lack of experience, lack of interest may disturb us but one thing will always keep you busy and active and it will make you understand the importance of achievement and that’s friendship.
A very famous quote says: - a friend in need is a friend indeed. Your friend can be anyone - your family, relative or colleague, but the meaning and motive will remain same forever. I have probably survived only because whenever I was alone, helpless, energy less; I have found you always there as a pointer. I am here to say thank you for your tremendous support and attention you have provided. It was a very difficult task for me to deal with the situation I have never faced before but, you were always there as an energy source for me. Whenever clouds of problems have made my sky dark, you appeared as a bright sun and made my path visible. I have updated myself as a person, as a learner, as a man and it is only because of you and your support.
After an awaited sunset of 2009 and before the wishful sunrise of 2010, I would like to thank you for all those special moments you have given to me. It was a tough job for me to bail those challenging situations but you made me brave and so I am here with a refreshed mind state. Thanks for giving me those challenging situations which have helped me to learn and to get familiar with the qualities I have.
Happy new year to all of you. May God provide you the opportunities which may help you to achieve all your goals and dreams you have decorated in this year. Enjoy the evening and welcome 2010 with a genuine smile. Be a learner and perform like a stunner.
Best of luck,
Always sparkle.
Last night I was going through few of those best lectures/speeches delivered by famous and most importantly successful personalities of India. It was an amazing experience to read them but one thing disappointed me was the language similarities. All articles were in English only and original delivered in the same language.
A year back there was a head line in all local and national news paper: - “APJ Abdul Kalam has visited different branches of Delhi Public School of different states and shared his knowledge with the students.” For the first look it was seriously exiting news for me, but a word “central board students” was disturbing me at that time. I was wondering why Respected KALAM sir has visited only central board schools in Gujarat. Why he did not go to local municipality schools where; from every successful sunrise to the every expected sunset students are facing four hectic phases of life. Why he didn’t talk with the student whose clothes are dirtier than the fan on the ceiling. Why he did not attend a lecture somewhere in a school of a small village or a small unknown town. What was the reason? Only because they are unable to speak in English? Only because they are unable to understand some heavily defined words from science and technology.
If these were the reasons than I think this is the height of partiality the students from such minorities are facing these days. Is effectiveness of knowledge depends on some foreign languages or BOARDS we have created? I have no objections with KALAM sir, either I am not doubting on his respect towards students but what making me disturbed is the ignorance we INDIANS are showing towards regional languages or most importantly national language.
Several times we watch live meetings held at head offices of UNO or World Bank, UNESCO or UNISEF. I have strongly observed one thing, representatives of many non ASIAN countries and some of the powerful ASIAN countries (except India) use their National-Local languages and they keep a translator with them. Some of thinkers say:-“they are showing attitude, they are partial” I am saying they are showing respect towards their own native languages. Such kind of organizations where freedom is the basic motto, they are free enough to speak in whatever language they want to, but still they are using their own native languages.
In parliament, in any political functions before or after elections, our politicians proudly speak in English in front of the people, civilians who all are hardly aware with the language ENGLISH.BOLLY WOOD functions, we all love the most to watch, handled in English also, for what, To impress Non-Asians? Or we all are having a habit to show off that we know some languages though we are INDIANS? In MALESIYA, SINGAPORE film festivals; our BOLLYWOOD celebrities proudly greet local public in their languages, I really don’t understand why? A general survey says: - “In India there are 80 % schools are English medium schools amongst total schools. And in last 2-3 years 30 % non- English schools have converted in English medium, where students are instructed to speak in English only, pray in English only.
I am not against all these foreign languages and use of them but you can’t just ignore local languages and accept those languages for your routine. Can’t we respect our culture and basics? Progress is not reliable on the language you speak, it’s widely depends on the knowledge you have and knowledge you share. Even I have used English to write this article; as many of you could have objections if you would receive this article in any other “regional language”. I don’t have any hard feelings with the language but you should have priorities, you should respect the language you are learning from the day you born. You should respect the language which is having a wide and a golden history time. You should respect the languages which are there in all your mythological books.
When you are sharing knowledge, It’s not important how effective your knowledge is or how effective your speech was, It’s always about the amount of knowledge you have actually conveyed to the listeners. Try to give a speech in Gujarati, Marathi, and Bengali in front of students belonging to English medium school, Kalam Sir “generally” prefers to visit. And collect their reactions, I am sure they would face the same situation municipality school students would face in that speech in English.
“Sometimes I wonder, I haven’t seen any mythological book from our culture, our past originally written in English, is GOD really able to understand all those prayers students are delivering in English in schools and other functions. Why we are using foreign languages more and more in our daily life? Are we scared of global identification? Are we scared of global ignorance? If yes then remember one thing: - “If you are ignoring your own cultural, regional and national languages; mind well you are the biggest fool if you are expecting respect for those languages from world. If our society wants to use foreign languages then they do not have right to feel proud of having 18 national languages including HINDI as prior language and 347 other regional languages. They have no rights to feel proud for the ocean of grammar every single local language is having.
What I strongly believe is, when you are learning how to write, you should learn to write your own name first; as if you are unable to write simply your own name, there no use of describe your world with no identity. So better learn your own cultural language first as foreign language will give you ways to destinations but local languages, regional languages will appear as keys for the door to success.
A year back there was a head line in all local and national news paper: - “APJ Abdul Kalam has visited different branches of Delhi Public School of different states and shared his knowledge with the students.” For the first look it was seriously exiting news for me, but a word “central board students” was disturbing me at that time. I was wondering why Respected KALAM sir has visited only central board schools in Gujarat. Why he did not go to local municipality schools where; from every successful sunrise to the every expected sunset students are facing four hectic phases of life. Why he didn’t talk with the student whose clothes are dirtier than the fan on the ceiling. Why he did not attend a lecture somewhere in a school of a small village or a small unknown town. What was the reason? Only because they are unable to speak in English? Only because they are unable to understand some heavily defined words from science and technology.
If these were the reasons than I think this is the height of partiality the students from such minorities are facing these days. Is effectiveness of knowledge depends on some foreign languages or BOARDS we have created? I have no objections with KALAM sir, either I am not doubting on his respect towards students but what making me disturbed is the ignorance we INDIANS are showing towards regional languages or most importantly national language.
Several times we watch live meetings held at head offices of UNO or World Bank, UNESCO or UNISEF. I have strongly observed one thing, representatives of many non ASIAN countries and some of the powerful ASIAN countries (except India) use their National-Local languages and they keep a translator with them. Some of thinkers say:-“they are showing attitude, they are partial” I am saying they are showing respect towards their own native languages. Such kind of organizations where freedom is the basic motto, they are free enough to speak in whatever language they want to, but still they are using their own native languages.
In parliament, in any political functions before or after elections, our politicians proudly speak in English in front of the people, civilians who all are hardly aware with the language ENGLISH.BOLLY WOOD functions, we all love the most to watch, handled in English also, for what, To impress Non-Asians? Or we all are having a habit to show off that we know some languages though we are INDIANS? In MALESIYA, SINGAPORE film festivals; our BOLLYWOOD celebrities proudly greet local public in their languages, I really don’t understand why? A general survey says: - “In India there are 80 % schools are English medium schools amongst total schools. And in last 2-3 years 30 % non- English schools have converted in English medium, where students are instructed to speak in English only, pray in English only.
I am not against all these foreign languages and use of them but you can’t just ignore local languages and accept those languages for your routine. Can’t we respect our culture and basics? Progress is not reliable on the language you speak, it’s widely depends on the knowledge you have and knowledge you share. Even I have used English to write this article; as many of you could have objections if you would receive this article in any other “regional language”. I don’t have any hard feelings with the language but you should have priorities, you should respect the language you are learning from the day you born. You should respect the language which is having a wide and a golden history time. You should respect the languages which are there in all your mythological books.
When you are sharing knowledge, It’s not important how effective your knowledge is or how effective your speech was, It’s always about the amount of knowledge you have actually conveyed to the listeners. Try to give a speech in Gujarati, Marathi, and Bengali in front of students belonging to English medium school, Kalam Sir “generally” prefers to visit. And collect their reactions, I am sure they would face the same situation municipality school students would face in that speech in English.
“Sometimes I wonder, I haven’t seen any mythological book from our culture, our past originally written in English, is GOD really able to understand all those prayers students are delivering in English in schools and other functions. Why we are using foreign languages more and more in our daily life? Are we scared of global identification? Are we scared of global ignorance? If yes then remember one thing: - “If you are ignoring your own cultural, regional and national languages; mind well you are the biggest fool if you are expecting respect for those languages from world. If our society wants to use foreign languages then they do not have right to feel proud of having 18 national languages including HINDI as prior language and 347 other regional languages. They have no rights to feel proud for the ocean of grammar every single local language is having.
What I strongly believe is, when you are learning how to write, you should learn to write your own name first; as if you are unable to write simply your own name, there no use of describe your world with no identity. So better learn your own cultural language first as foreign language will give you ways to destinations but local languages, regional languages will appear as keys for the door to success.
“Happiness comes along with tears,
Whatever the amount is; more or less,
Festival is not a Reason to be happy,
It a medium to share care and happiness”
Whatever the amount is; more or less,
Festival is not a Reason to be happy,
It a medium to share care and happiness”
Today is diwali, a festival of lights, a festival of relationship, a festival of sharing, a festival of caring. From every innocent child to every matured aged person, everyone has a different motive, meaning and moral of this festival. I have heard many times from my elders, my teachers, and my colleagues that diwali is a festival to refresh your life. Diwali is a festival to forget all bad days one has faced in his/her past, diwali is a medium to get connected with all actively or passively. Diwali is a day when individuals get connected with each other with a bond called “Brotherhood”.
What we generally do in diwali? Cleaning our houses, decorating it with lights and lamps, buying sweets and crackers for family, relative visits, lunch-dinner in hotels and a movie. That’s it right? Ask anyone and you will have this answer in 80% cases. What is the motive of festival? Self enjoyment and self satisfaction? If this is the motive then why we are lecturing about brotherhood and unity on such days. Why we all are showing off. Why we all are having such a rigid thinking and a rigid way of selfishness.
World have became busy and so we all have. But on such occasions cant we spent some time with them who don’t have anyone with whom they can share their life, their happiness, their sadness, their wishes, and their dreams. Can’t we have time to respect the dissimilarity god has created in between. Compare your child with the orphan living in an orphanage. Compare your child’s dreams with his dreams. There is no difference as far as dreams are concerned. Can’t we share love and care we are giving to our family? There are some global responsibilities god has allotted to us and we should respect them but we are not. We have become selfish and self concerned.
Fire work is not only the way to convey how much happy you are. Can’t we reduce our expenses and can’t we spend money for them who all are poor of money. If we can’t spend money for them then we all are also poor, poor of mind. I have seen many people wasting lots of money behind useless crackers but if we ask them for charity they will bluntly say: - “I have earned money by hard work; I can’t spend it behind those useless people-baggers. They are not baggers, they are strugglers.
"ये ज़िन्दगी भी खुदा का बनाया कैसा खेल है, जहा दिलों के मेल है वही आज हर दिल में मैल है"
One more thing I have in my mind which is forcing me to think. These days we all are aware with global warming and we all are arguing and suggesting so many things to avoid it and save the world. But when the thing is related to self enjoyment, maturity disappears suddenly. We can’t we control ourselves. Can’t we reduce fire work as wise or otherwise it is creating problem with our environment. We have to sacrifice for our future. We have to sacrifice for thousands of next sunrises. We have to save our world. It is in our hand.
By pointing out these many mistakes of world and by suggesting these many suggestions, I don’t want to prove anything. I am also a human and belonging to the same category, the world belongs to. But we have to think. We have to remove rigidity. We have to live for others too. World is dying day by day and if we have to survive we have to provide pillars of care, brotherhood, humanity, maturity, self awareness and love to support our world. To secure our world. We all love sunrise but for that we have to maintain the brightness of sun. We have to maintain the cleanliness the sunrise has.
A Slap: - I was walking by road side where a child was talking to his mother. He was questioning to his mother. His question was: - “what is happiness”. His mother smiled and replied: - “dear son, for the comfort of this cruel world we have sacrificed . I know you are hungry and crying. But every tear has a reason. And that reason, that thing we have sacrificed for this world is Happiness. “They all are happy by force and we are sad by choice”
that's it.
This is a tribute to the legend.
A person, A Man with maximum integrity, ONE MAN ARMY in a real mean.
Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi.
This is a genuine Try to Talk with his soul.I have observed his statues and My home is just next to "GANDHI ASHRAM" and I have feel that he is not happy..
So today I have tried to write GANDHIJI's Mind.
Its just output of my feelings. If it hurt anyone,Please forgive me.
GANDHI-The One Man Army
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With a stick of ambitions those steps full of maturity,
Confidence at fullest and mosaic of reality,
I have secured and proved my own ethics,
I am a river-divinity in flow,
I am GANDHI-the one-man army...
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Tonic of truth and air of non-violence,
I have faced those thousand of scary glances,
But I was my own achievement and so for my nation,
I am wind of inspiration,
I am GANDHI-the one-man army...
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My nation was my longitude and latitudes were my ethics,
I have built my own house with experiments of truth and basics,
Children were my source of energy and so I was strong,
I was a heartbeat of young generation and I will remain in their hearts for long,
I am GANDHI-the one-man army...
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But,
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Now they have locked me in those statues,
I am watching my children with wet eyes,
I fought not for a free country,
I fought for a generation with free thinking,
But meaning of freedom is disappeared here,
I am a helpless statue,
I am GANDHI-the one-man army...
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I was one-man army but I did not want to be,
I wanted you all to walk with me,
But I am still alone walking toward horizon,
“Experiments of truth” are now “experiments with truth”,
I am a milestone on the way to eternity,
I am GANDHI-the one-man army...
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Thousands of salutes to you my Lord.
Thanks For teaching me the meaning of TRUTH.
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"JAY HIND"
Regards,
Maulik
Maulik
आज कहा आ गया हूँ मैं,
इतने अँधेरे उजाले पहले नहीं देखे,
देखा है अक्सर इंसानों को मिलते हुए,
इतनी हेवानियत वाले पहले नहीं देखे...
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देखा है अक्सर दीये हर मज्हारो पर खुशियों के,
इतने जनाजे पहले कभी नहीं देखे,
देखा है हर वक़्त औरत को मुस्कुराते हुए,
पिए है जो उसने विष के प्याले किसीने नहीं देखे...
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देखा है अक्सर एक ही मज़हब को मैंने,
ऐसे जात-मज़हब के हवाले पहले नहीं देखे,
देखा है अक्सर सबने सुख के संदूक को मेरे,
उसपे लटके दुखों के ताले किसीने नहीं देखे...
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ऐसे नज़रिए वाले नहीं देखे,
इंसानियत को नफरत करने वाले नहीं देखे,
यह कैसी दुनिया बना दी खुदा ने जहा,
हमारे पैरो के छाले किसीने नही देखे...
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देखी है अक्सर रुदाली किसी के जनाजे पर,
उसपे मुस्कुराने वाले नही देखे,
सरेआम लीलम करते है जो सीताओं को यहाँ,
ऐसे खुले आम खुद को रावन बताने वाले नहीं देखे...
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देखे है अक्सर गुलिस्तान सपनो में,
जलते आशियाने नही देखे,
मर गई है अच्छाई कही नज़र नही आती,
खुद को इंसान कहलवाने वाले हमारे-तुम्हारे जैसे नही देखे.
इतने अँधेरे उजाले पहले नहीं देखे,
देखा है अक्सर इंसानों को मिलते हुए,
इतनी हेवानियत वाले पहले नहीं देखे...
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देखा है अक्सर दीये हर मज्हारो पर खुशियों के,
इतने जनाजे पहले कभी नहीं देखे,
देखा है हर वक़्त औरत को मुस्कुराते हुए,
पिए है जो उसने विष के प्याले किसीने नहीं देखे...
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देखा है अक्सर एक ही मज़हब को मैंने,
ऐसे जात-मज़हब के हवाले पहले नहीं देखे,
देखा है अक्सर सबने सुख के संदूक को मेरे,
उसपे लटके दुखों के ताले किसीने नहीं देखे...
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ऐसे नज़रिए वाले नहीं देखे,
इंसानियत को नफरत करने वाले नहीं देखे,
यह कैसी दुनिया बना दी खुदा ने जहा,
हमारे पैरो के छाले किसीने नही देखे...
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देखी है अक्सर रुदाली किसी के जनाजे पर,
उसपे मुस्कुराने वाले नही देखे,
सरेआम लीलम करते है जो सीताओं को यहाँ,
ऐसे खुले आम खुद को रावन बताने वाले नहीं देखे...
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देखे है अक्सर गुलिस्तान सपनो में,
जलते आशियाने नही देखे,
मर गई है अच्छाई कही नज़र नही आती,
खुद को इंसान कहलवाने वाले हमारे-तुम्हारे जैसे नही देखे.
Na socha tha ki pyar karne ki tu aisi saza dega,
Til-til marne ki kuch aisi wajah dega,
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Jita raha sukh ke intezaar me har dukh ko apnake,
Kya pata tha vartmaan meri kushiyan chura lega,
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Hasta raha kuch chubhtey kantey dil me samaye,
Kya pata tha gum ankho se beh kar mujhi ko duba dega,
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Karta tha baatey sahil se bahein faila kar,
Is aas me ki ek din tu aake muje gale laga lega,
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Firta raha jindagi bhar kuch sawalon ke jawab dundhne,
Kya pata tha woh ek mod sare sawal badal dega,
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Jiya har pal ko maut ki ahat samaj kar,
Galt fehmi thi jo socha ke khuda marne ki raza dega,
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Kar rahi thi intezaar ruh kabr sukh jane ka,
Par pata na tha ke tu yaad banker kabr me bhi rula dega,
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Gum nahi hai jindagi ko kho dene ka,
Itihaas apne pyar ki gawahi deta rahega,
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Bus tuje khone ka gum janmo janm in aankho se behta rahega .
These lines of MOTHER TARASA are simple enough to explain but complex enough to understand.
Where is god? Ask this question to the person standing besides you and wait for the answer. In 90 % cases he would say:” god is every where and than he will talk about temple, mosque, church, GURUDWARA. Answer is bit diplomatic but true enough. Not because it’s philosophically proved but, because our way of thinking and the level of satisfaction make it true. We all are having some rigid formatted answer for such kinds of question. From grand father to father and to the child they all are having same knowledge, same understanding, and same belief in god.
If you ask a baby:” where is god”. His reply would be words like “temple, mosque, church or GURUDWARA”. At the age of innocence, these kinds of answers are expected. But who told him about this. Who explain the meaning of temple? Who defined god in front of him. He got this knowledge from one among us.
And here the word “EXPECTATIONS” introduced. From every successful sunrise to every awaited sunset, directly or indirectly we think about god. We go to temple, mosque, church or GURUDWARA in the morning to see god, to explain the importance of god in our life, to explain prospects, but is it only the place where we can find god?
Many of us believe that god is a person with four hands, who has a well perfumed room with Devine atmosphere with rivers of nectar here n there and mountains of comfort all around and few eternal qualities which proves him eternal, almighty. Even I have these kinds of thoughts but we are still genuine as we will believe in the things we have seen in the past, we have heard in tales from our elders. But that’s not enough to prove, to explain the truth. Everything is directly or indirectly a replica of god, a definition of god.
Have you ever observed a baby playing at sea-shore? What children generally do there? A baby will make a temple, a flag on the top of the temple. A baby tries to find his RAM, ALLAH, VAHEGURU, JESUS in the clay. If he can find his god in the clay, does he need to go to temple or any other places we called HOLY PLACES?
We have distributed an energy source we call “god” in different religion to fulfill our EXPECTATIONS, our personal wishes. To prove few lines someone has written about the natural power. God is in our mind, in our heart. In the dedication we are showing. Love we are showing, in Bonds between souls. These all are different examples of god. It’s your thinking and understanding defines your god.
Heaven or hell everything is here. Is there any need to find heaven when you have your mother’s lap? Can find the amount of peace you can find in your mother’s lap? Is there any need to go to temple when you have mother-father (god and goddess) with you? Where is hell? It’s inside our mind, heart. Nothing is perfect and our imperfection defines hell. It’s not bad it just a word which is unable to define heaven.
Allow your child to find his/her god in his/her own way. For your child, you are god. Fulfill his expectations in the same way your god feeds you. And you only decide now “whose your god?”, “where is your god?”
That’s it.
Life is not a road to destination; it’s only a pointer which shows you the directions. When I use “directions” I mean it. You will face several cross roads in the journey of your life. We always focus on distance rather than destination. In every single moment of our life we expect a pointer, who can guide us, who can show us directions or better say our hierarchy makes us to follow the way I have described. Hierarchy is nothing but a stream of rigid thinking of our father, grandfather, our elders, old values of society, so called basic “rules”, cultural dissimilarities.
In my journey of 22 years, several time I have heard the word “maturity “, in my childhood several time they compared me with someone’s adulthood. And tagged me as Immature, irresponsible. But as far as maturity is concern, I don’t think so there any link between Age and maturity. Is there any?
What is MATURITY? Common and simple answer of this question is:-“maturity is a basic knowledge of life, how to handle it, what to do, what not to do, how to react, how to speak, how to handle situation”. This is a formatted answer many of us know. But this is rigid answer. A baby is as matured as his father. What he needs is time. Who explained a baby, how to breath? No one, right? Still he can breathe properly, he can move, he can smile, he can cry. He knows if I will cry my mother will feed me. If I will laugh my father will kiss me. What is this? This is MATURITY. When a person knows what he should do to achieve, to get his basic needs, his basic dreams, his basic goals, he is the most matured person in his own world.
Maturity is a reaction of some natural or artificial actions. I have seen several times, parents force their child to go for the course they want him to learn. “After 10th you will go for science stream, that’s final, there is no value of commerce, you don’t know anything, and you are IMMATURED”. Many times we heard this kind of sentences. One should have right to do what he/she actually wants to do. Why they don’t have rights? No one is immature on this earth, amount of maturity differs. If one girl wants to marry with a person whom she loves, hierarchy will not allow her to do that. And they will bit her feelings with the stick of immaturity, irresponsibleness. Is it valid to force someone to follow your own ethics? Are they matured in the way they behave? This is nothing but internal ego. One man-one rule mentality. Why we have to follow protocol, why don’t we have our own way of thinking and rules to follow. When someone tries to break this structure and follow his own rules, he will surely be tagged as immature. But we are helpless and this rule is World Wide Web. Our egoistic hierarchy will not allow us to break the chain.
I don’t know why our society is having a rigid lifestyle, why we are following each other’s way, we have created an unbreakable loop and now when we know we can’t break it we are complaining. We should have our own free world and our own levels of maturity. And we should have freedom to follow our basic ethics. Don’t try to define Maturity try to differentiate the levels of it. Remember one thing:-“Tiger is a symbol of power, But, Man Eater Tiger is a symbol of violence” and we need to kill the tiger to survive.
That’s it.
In my journey of 22 years, several time I have heard the word “maturity “, in my childhood several time they compared me with someone’s adulthood. And tagged me as Immature, irresponsible. But as far as maturity is concern, I don’t think so there any link between Age and maturity. Is there any?
What is MATURITY? Common and simple answer of this question is:-“maturity is a basic knowledge of life, how to handle it, what to do, what not to do, how to react, how to speak, how to handle situation”. This is a formatted answer many of us know. But this is rigid answer. A baby is as matured as his father. What he needs is time. Who explained a baby, how to breath? No one, right? Still he can breathe properly, he can move, he can smile, he can cry. He knows if I will cry my mother will feed me. If I will laugh my father will kiss me. What is this? This is MATURITY. When a person knows what he should do to achieve, to get his basic needs, his basic dreams, his basic goals, he is the most matured person in his own world.
Maturity is a reaction of some natural or artificial actions. I have seen several times, parents force their child to go for the course they want him to learn. “After 10th you will go for science stream, that’s final, there is no value of commerce, you don’t know anything, and you are IMMATURED”. Many times we heard this kind of sentences. One should have right to do what he/she actually wants to do. Why they don’t have rights? No one is immature on this earth, amount of maturity differs. If one girl wants to marry with a person whom she loves, hierarchy will not allow her to do that. And they will bit her feelings with the stick of immaturity, irresponsibleness. Is it valid to force someone to follow your own ethics? Are they matured in the way they behave? This is nothing but internal ego. One man-one rule mentality. Why we have to follow protocol, why don’t we have our own way of thinking and rules to follow. When someone tries to break this structure and follow his own rules, he will surely be tagged as immature. But we are helpless and this rule is World Wide Web. Our egoistic hierarchy will not allow us to break the chain.
I don’t know why our society is having a rigid lifestyle, why we are following each other’s way, we have created an unbreakable loop and now when we know we can’t break it we are complaining. We should have our own free world and our own levels of maturity. And we should have freedom to follow our basic ethics. Don’t try to define Maturity try to differentiate the levels of it. Remember one thing:-“Tiger is a symbol of power, But, Man Eater Tiger is a symbol of violence” and we need to kill the tiger to survive.
That’s it.
Every tear drop has a reason. we all are a part of natural cycle but We humans are born unsatisfied creatures. We always run behind something unaffordable, impossible or useless. If you ask someone about the most important thing of life he will become philosopher and his philosophical soul will start explain the definition of importance flawlessly.
Mostly our answer will be related to education, money, status, oxygen (from my damaged brain) and so many things and practically its fact, we can not live without the things i have mentioned above.
In today’s era there are mainly two races exist.
1. Retrace
2. Race between money and education.
Retrace is the race between hunger and hard work. Every single person is running, working, struggling for his own hunger and needs. So now it’s become a race called “RETRACE”.
Few decades back people were rich enough to get, to achieve their dreams goals and emotions.
But at that time, education was not so important as way of thinking and expectations were limited. Because we all are farmer’s children and so we have to face all kind of struggle and hurdles. If you will compare our past with the present, you won’t find a single change in behaviour, thinking, expectation and dream just life style has changed. Only one change is there and that change has changed entire life of ambitious people.
At present if you want to dream something, you have to dream something affordable. Our dreams are now limited to our lifestyle, our expenses, our needs.
Yes dreams can also be unaffordable. Today we have departed our society with several parts.
Middle class, upper middle class, lower middle class and many more. A middle class family can’t pay for his child’s future. A statement you may heard around “ Only a doctor’s son can be a doctor now” . Why money is so important. A boy with ability cannot be a pioneer if he or his father don’t have few pieces of paper we called money.
I am so surprised when you are talking about a cultural country like India when we have departed this country on the basis of money. From PRIME MINISTER to PA, no one is bothering to fund those who all really deserve something good and who all are capable to achieve heights. I always feel bad when prime minister comes to our city and go to only those schools where all children and management belong to a rich background. There is no use of culture when our minds are behaving like vultures.
In every single book with mythological touch, you fill find definition of education without any expectations from teacher or institute, GURU DAKSHINA is a cultural to respect your teacher.
But what now, at present?
GURUS are now so fashionable and you know this world is advanced now so everything should be in the way the world is. This is what our so called GURUS think. So this advance payment thing is introduced. If world is became advanced, why still we can find 10 12 years old child at tea stall, why they don’t go to school? Why they are working at this age? Because of money? No. They are poor of money, and we are poor of mind.
This discussion has no and every one would have different opinions. But something to think. Something should be done. Otherwise one day will come when you would get a degree of doctorate, engineering or commerce nearby shop if you will be able to pay the money they want and it will be the day before destruction, death of education. Dead body of education.
That’s it...
SLAP:-
“A fifteen years old boy cleaning a room of a rich business man and watching him playing cricket in his own ground. And dual emotions on his face and in his heart laughing on his destiny and at the same time crying on his destiny.
If I ask you to tell me the name of person with whom you can talk for hours, with whom you can share every single moment of your life anytime, in any situation than you will count lots of names but please concentrate on the word “ANYTIME”. Just think are you always feeling the same free and relaxed secured with the person you are talking about? Practically no. Sometimes a person feels, he is not comfortable while talking with a particular person and he avoids that person. Many times it happens that we can't talk properly with our family members, elders and younger too…
Some days back I was sitting with my friend and he was so much disturbed because of a fight with his dad…He was arguing that communication gap between my friend and his father is increasing day by day…That time I was just speechless because he was comparing communication between A son and his father. He was blaming his grandfather for the same. He was arguing that because of his grand father he and his father are upset and fighting. I reached home and got lost in thoughts…Was it a valid reason from him? Was his grand father only the reason? ”COMMUNICATION GAP” and “GENERATION GAP”…these two words are very much famous in youngsters today. Mom-dad resist me in the entire thing and it’s because of my grandfather. What he was trying to say is; His grandfather is very much narrow minded and so his father is. Generally our grand parents are having very different thinking and point of views with respect to us. It’s a common thing. Let me give you an example. Compare your self with a student who is studying in same school, same collage in which you were studying few years back. Compare your way of thinking with him and you will get the answer and reasons of such kind of variations and gaps.
He was arguing that he wants a big home a long car and his father is not interested because of his grandfather. His grand father argues in small things and because of his grandfather he is not getting things he actually wants and deserves. I was shocked when I heard this. It’s not a case of communication gap or generation gap. When I was taking tuition; several times it happened that my students were arguing and not agreeing with my points. They were having their own different thinking and views as compared to me. So it’s a case of different thinking rather than communication gap. What I think is your thinking and behavior is very much dependant on your surroundings, your friend circles. It’s very much reliable on life style you’re living.
Present is always well manufactured and well maintained than past. What you or I want in my future? Better life and better surroundings. What is the meaning of “better”. Its nothing but comparatively more matured and more flexible, more comfortable life with compare to the present life.
my friend’s wishes I think were because of his friend circle …May be his friends belong to high class family and because his father is not fulfilling his wishes he is not happy…I think he should not blame his father or grandfather for anything…We generally compare our present with someone’s present and compare our past with someone’s past…We can dream but we can’t say it’s must for you to fulfill my wishes…
Conclusion is we should live according to our culture not according to the trend…It may possible that your friend is not facing problems which you are facing but it doesn’t mean his family is better than yours…And yes a father is a bridge between grandfather and grandson…So its parent's duty to keep away their young ones from some family problems or better say misunderstandings…Because a baby will speak what he is listening…
That’s it….
Some days back I was sitting with my friend and he was so much disturbed because of a fight with his dad…He was arguing that communication gap between my friend and his father is increasing day by day…That time I was just speechless because he was comparing communication between A son and his father. He was blaming his grandfather for the same. He was arguing that because of his grand father he and his father are upset and fighting. I reached home and got lost in thoughts…Was it a valid reason from him? Was his grand father only the reason? ”COMMUNICATION GAP” and “GENERATION GAP”…these two words are very much famous in youngsters today. Mom-dad resist me in the entire thing and it’s because of my grandfather. What he was trying to say is; His grandfather is very much narrow minded and so his father is. Generally our grand parents are having very different thinking and point of views with respect to us. It’s a common thing. Let me give you an example. Compare your self with a student who is studying in same school, same collage in which you were studying few years back. Compare your way of thinking with him and you will get the answer and reasons of such kind of variations and gaps.
He was arguing that he wants a big home a long car and his father is not interested because of his grandfather. His grand father argues in small things and because of his grandfather he is not getting things he actually wants and deserves. I was shocked when I heard this. It’s not a case of communication gap or generation gap. When I was taking tuition; several times it happened that my students were arguing and not agreeing with my points. They were having their own different thinking and views as compared to me. So it’s a case of different thinking rather than communication gap. What I think is your thinking and behavior is very much dependant on your surroundings, your friend circles. It’s very much reliable on life style you’re living.
Present is always well manufactured and well maintained than past. What you or I want in my future? Better life and better surroundings. What is the meaning of “better”. Its nothing but comparatively more matured and more flexible, more comfortable life with compare to the present life.
my friend’s wishes I think were because of his friend circle …May be his friends belong to high class family and because his father is not fulfilling his wishes he is not happy…I think he should not blame his father or grandfather for anything…We generally compare our present with someone’s present and compare our past with someone’s past…We can dream but we can’t say it’s must for you to fulfill my wishes…
Conclusion is we should live according to our culture not according to the trend…It may possible that your friend is not facing problems which you are facing but it doesn’t mean his family is better than yours…And yes a father is a bridge between grandfather and grandson…So its parent's duty to keep away their young ones from some family problems or better say misunderstandings…Because a baby will speak what he is listening…
That’s it….
Hello friends,
Every single coin has two sides with opposite meanings. You will never find similarities between two different things or same thing which belong to same category as far as world is concern. We have categorized ourselves in different categories and then I don’t understand why the hell we are blaming our societies for such things? Why we are arguing and complaining against such category?
As far as ASIA is concern most of the countries are having basic protocols of independence. A person is free and independent. He can speak, he can share, he can write, he can perform, he can show his thoughts and ideas without any kind of interruptions (On papers only). Than what is the reason of “HUMILIATION”? Do we know the exact definition of humiliation? We don’t. We have defined it for our own satisfaction.
Let me give an example of BOLLYWOOD. There are lots of issues regarding humiliations in past. In one particular movie if there is something regarding HINDU-MUSLIM than religious organizations will come in action. They will claim that director and other persons who are involved had caused them humiliation in that particular film. What is the basic purpose of entertainment? What is the basic of a film? Is there any use of such kind of documentaries? What they are trying to show? Realities? If directors or film makers will start directing movies on basis of what religious organization think, what they want them to make then there is no use of it. Motive of entertainment will disappear.
News published in DIVYA BHASKAR , “ an organization belong to some slum areas claimed that the film maker of SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE had caused them significant humiliation, and called them dogs in the movie so they want justice. And ANIL KAPOOR and music director A R REHMAN also abused badly by them. Now their actual argue is “dog” is the word people generally use for them who are behaving like animal. And so movie maker have to say sorry and they will not allow them to release the film in India. Now if “dog” was only the reason of such kind of issue than there are lots of films in my memory, in which they have used this word so many times and broken numerous records and still people are crazy for those films. Why such organizations are partial? Where were they at that time? And now suddenly they realized and arguing. They should feel proud on REHMAN and they should thank them for first GOLDEN GLOB he secured for INDIAN film industry.
I remember few years back when FANNA was on calendar, AAMIR KHAN has given statement related to NARMADA project and FANNA is a past now and milestone for GUJARATI NEWS PAPERS. But in this care where are those basic rights Indian government has given to an Indian? He was free to say what he thinks and he is. Everyone is free to share his/her thoughts in INDIA and what was the reason? Humiliation? I don’t think so.(sorry if someone hurt by this paragraph, but I cant compromise with my thoughts as I am independent).
Scenario is, such organizations are blaming and shouting when someone is use a word like “DOG”, “DONKEY”, “MONKEY” for them, just imagine what will be the scenario when animals will start arguing on such issues? Yes but I am sure; their arguments will be more legal and acceptable than us-“THINKERS”.
That’s it.
Every single coin has two sides with opposite meanings. You will never find similarities between two different things or same thing which belong to same category as far as world is concern. We have categorized ourselves in different categories and then I don’t understand why the hell we are blaming our societies for such things? Why we are arguing and complaining against such category?
As far as ASIA is concern most of the countries are having basic protocols of independence. A person is free and independent. He can speak, he can share, he can write, he can perform, he can show his thoughts and ideas without any kind of interruptions (On papers only). Than what is the reason of “HUMILIATION”? Do we know the exact definition of humiliation? We don’t. We have defined it for our own satisfaction.
Let me give an example of BOLLYWOOD. There are lots of issues regarding humiliations in past. In one particular movie if there is something regarding HINDU-MUSLIM than religious organizations will come in action. They will claim that director and other persons who are involved had caused them humiliation in that particular film. What is the basic purpose of entertainment? What is the basic of a film? Is there any use of such kind of documentaries? What they are trying to show? Realities? If directors or film makers will start directing movies on basis of what religious organization think, what they want them to make then there is no use of it. Motive of entertainment will disappear.
News published in DIVYA BHASKAR , “ an organization belong to some slum areas claimed that the film maker of SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE had caused them significant humiliation, and called them dogs in the movie so they want justice. And ANIL KAPOOR and music director A R REHMAN also abused badly by them. Now their actual argue is “dog” is the word people generally use for them who are behaving like animal. And so movie maker have to say sorry and they will not allow them to release the film in India. Now if “dog” was only the reason of such kind of issue than there are lots of films in my memory, in which they have used this word so many times and broken numerous records and still people are crazy for those films. Why such organizations are partial? Where were they at that time? And now suddenly they realized and arguing. They should feel proud on REHMAN and they should thank them for first GOLDEN GLOB he secured for INDIAN film industry.
I remember few years back when FANNA was on calendar, AAMIR KHAN has given statement related to NARMADA project and FANNA is a past now and milestone for GUJARATI NEWS PAPERS. But in this care where are those basic rights Indian government has given to an Indian? He was free to say what he thinks and he is. Everyone is free to share his/her thoughts in INDIA and what was the reason? Humiliation? I don’t think so.(sorry if someone hurt by this paragraph, but I cant compromise with my thoughts as I am independent).
Scenario is, such organizations are blaming and shouting when someone is use a word like “DOG”, “DONKEY”, “MONKEY” for them, just imagine what will be the scenario when animals will start arguing on such issues? Yes but I am sure; their arguments will be more legal and acceptable than us-“THINKERS”.
That’s it.
“PROGRESS”-the word we have defined with the help of the word “COMPARISON”.In this world of retrace, we generally use the word “COMPARISON”.No matter how good our present is, we always blame our past and will say “ah, it could have been better”…We generally compare our present with someone’s present and then we will blame our self for the thing which we have done in past…one sentence is there in my mind “ITIHAAS GAWAAH HAI”…When we talk about progress, We generally decide it on basis of present and then we will compare it with the past and finally conclusion will be numbers of weak points. ”SACHIN” didn’t play well in last 10 matches on this ground so he will not perform today as well. As he was not good at that time that doesn’t mean that he can not achieve it. We are dependent on the past, history…As far as India’s progress is concern we can’t compare it with AMERICA or JAPAN or other countries. We have secured unbelievable check points in countable years after 1947. A person generally compares his result with his classmate’s, his home with his neighbour’s, his designation with his colleague’s and if they are better in comparison to his own, he concludes that he is a looser or less intelligent with compare to other and his luck is poor. We believe in assumptions not efforts.
should follow the global definition of comparison but all are having their own different definition and meaning of word comparison. And all are following that whether it’s valid or not. We can’t compare two different persons as they are different by thinking, by way of living and the way they handle their situation is also different. Siblings can have many differences, even twin brother or sisters could be different by nature and by thinking, than you should not expect same result from both of them. But we can not afford this fact as far as human is concern, expectations are always high and comparison always……???.
So comparison is good but not with others. Always compare yourself with your past and you will find yourself much better and more effective than you were in past. Effort is a key to achievement. Even though our history books do not encompass much about our engineering works in the past, still the pace of recovery we have achieved after 1947 is unbelievable. Don’t count what you have, just think what next? What you want in your future disappointment of fulfillment. You can compare dissimilarities but you have to accept small differences between similarities. That’s it.
should follow the global definition of comparison but all are having their own different definition and meaning of word comparison. And all are following that whether it’s valid or not. We can’t compare two different persons as they are different by thinking, by way of living and the way they handle their situation is also different. Siblings can have many differences, even twin brother or sisters could be different by nature and by thinking, than you should not expect same result from both of them. But we can not afford this fact as far as human is concern, expectations are always high and comparison always……???.
So comparison is good but not with others. Always compare yourself with your past and you will find yourself much better and more effective than you were in past. Effort is a key to achievement. Even though our history books do not encompass much about our engineering works in the past, still the pace of recovery we have achieved after 1947 is unbelievable. Don’t count what you have, just think what next? What you want in your future disappointment of fulfillment. You can compare dissimilarities but you have to accept small differences between similarities. That’s it.
Hello Friends,
Where we are? What we are? Such questions are having uncountable answers and the person who is answering also not sure about the answer. Life is like this only. We all are a part of a community having so much dissimilarities, every single person is having his own rule and own way of thinking.
There is no space for humanity and global ethics of humanity as far as earth is concern. There are few things, which are too small for most of us, almost negligible, but they are actually not. Every day before a sleep, have you ever observed roads, societies, and your balcony? Try it .you will find them full of slum, full of plastic bags and the next morning you will surprisingly find your roads clean like they were never before. Is it a magic? Is there any natural power doing this? No. they are like us. They are RAG PICKERS.
So many of us are unaware with this name, with this community because they perform their job before sunrise. However, it’s not their duty to clean your road, is it? From where such garbage things come? From our home only. We are responsible for such kind of slum and it is our responsibility to clean our neighbourhood. I have observed so many times, around 8-10 years old boys and girls are doing such kind of job for negligible amount. But at the age I have mentioned is it valid to expect and accept such kind of jobs from them; which we have never done before in our life. Cunningness is they are poor of money but we are poor of mind. Poor of thinking.
We all are aware with the word hesitation and we all are having different definition of that word. And we have categorized everything with the help of such words. If we are responsible for something than it’s our duty to make it fine but we generally ignore such work and will hind it behind the word hesitation. Let’s take your own example. Observe your own desk, your own working table before a leave and observe it the next day. You will never find any kind of change over there as it’s your responsibility to clean it but you didn’t, you don’t and you will never clean it. Why we are running from our basic responsibility, why we are being burden for someone. Those children are having a bunch of dreams, which will never going to be true. And wise or otherwise we upper class societies are responsible for this.
A mother will never allow her child if he wants to play will dust, slum, and similar things belong to the same category. And they are belonging to a family. 8-10 years old boy or girl is having a mother with same thinking my mother has. Then why we are, behaving like blinds. Why don’t we stop them? Why they do not go to school. Why they are not having proper toys to play? Why they are happy with nothingness in their life? I don’t have answer and I guess no one is able to answer. Few days back I was watching a series “UTARAN” on television. I was impressed but I am after that single episode of that awesome series.
You guys will thing MAULIK always blame whole community for anything. But a chain should be linked properly and we all are a part of chain if a single break occurs then whole chain will be affected. I am not blaming you for anything but I am requesting you to do something. Not for them but at least for you. Just try to clean yourself with your surroundings. It is my humble request to you, to our community, to me. Never be just a viewer of your dream; try to be painter of it. This is what I believe and those RAG PICKERS with small brains are having dreams with no limits. Moreover, they deserve what day wish.
That’s it.
Where we are? What we are? Such questions are having uncountable answers and the person who is answering also not sure about the answer. Life is like this only. We all are a part of a community having so much dissimilarities, every single person is having his own rule and own way of thinking.
There is no space for humanity and global ethics of humanity as far as earth is concern. There are few things, which are too small for most of us, almost negligible, but they are actually not. Every day before a sleep, have you ever observed roads, societies, and your balcony? Try it .you will find them full of slum, full of plastic bags and the next morning you will surprisingly find your roads clean like they were never before. Is it a magic? Is there any natural power doing this? No. they are like us. They are RAG PICKERS.
So many of us are unaware with this name, with this community because they perform their job before sunrise. However, it’s not their duty to clean your road, is it? From where such garbage things come? From our home only. We are responsible for such kind of slum and it is our responsibility to clean our neighbourhood. I have observed so many times, around 8-10 years old boys and girls are doing such kind of job for negligible amount. But at the age I have mentioned is it valid to expect and accept such kind of jobs from them; which we have never done before in our life. Cunningness is they are poor of money but we are poor of mind. Poor of thinking.
We all are aware with the word hesitation and we all are having different definition of that word. And we have categorized everything with the help of such words. If we are responsible for something than it’s our duty to make it fine but we generally ignore such work and will hind it behind the word hesitation. Let’s take your own example. Observe your own desk, your own working table before a leave and observe it the next day. You will never find any kind of change over there as it’s your responsibility to clean it but you didn’t, you don’t and you will never clean it. Why we are running from our basic responsibility, why we are being burden for someone. Those children are having a bunch of dreams, which will never going to be true. And wise or otherwise we upper class societies are responsible for this.
A mother will never allow her child if he wants to play will dust, slum, and similar things belong to the same category. And they are belonging to a family. 8-10 years old boy or girl is having a mother with same thinking my mother has. Then why we are, behaving like blinds. Why don’t we stop them? Why they do not go to school. Why they are not having proper toys to play? Why they are happy with nothingness in their life? I don’t have answer and I guess no one is able to answer. Few days back I was watching a series “UTARAN” on television. I was impressed but I am after that single episode of that awesome series.
You guys will thing MAULIK always blame whole community for anything. But a chain should be linked properly and we all are a part of chain if a single break occurs then whole chain will be affected. I am not blaming you for anything but I am requesting you to do something. Not for them but at least for you. Just try to clean yourself with your surroundings. It is my humble request to you, to our community, to me. Never be just a viewer of your dream; try to be painter of it. This is what I believe and those RAG PICKERS with small brains are having dreams with no limits. Moreover, they deserve what day wish.
That’s it.
These days Indians are suffering from unwanted death, unwanted disasters, and unwanted atmosphere. And most of the countries are facing the same situations. TV, radio, public places, and parliaments, political parties all are suffering wise or otherwise. All are blaming each other “public ->politics-> rival parties->media and management” whole hierarchy is suffering but no one is trying to find out the reason and solution. Terrorists and terrorism these two words are highly abused by world these days. We all are part of a clock where we are minute’s hand life is second’s hand and every moment we are trying hard to catch life. This race is the main reason of the occurrence of the word “dissatisfaction”.
What is terrorism? It is a part of this world. It’s a dissimilarity created by world, created by public, created by rule of nature. The main reason is “I AM” rule, “I AM” thinking. We are aware with cake and aware with birthday parties. In party what we generally do? We cut the cake and distribute it. But in that one will try to secure major part for him, the biggest piece of cake for him.We enjoy last sip of soft drink with the same desperation; with the same dissatisfaction. I want more;i want more is the reason of this dissimilarity called terrorism. We humans are same as far as life and death is concern, as far as circle of life is concern but our thinking matters.
Expectation and dissatisfaction these two words are the main reasons of such unwanted things. No one is ready to compromise. Earth originally was a stone but we had distributed it because of that I AM rule. Religions, caste, rules, distributions so many things are probable reasons of such events.
When you are handling a country with population of 1100 million then you have to be ready to face 1100 million expectations and solutions. You should not think about vote bank and other things. Look, one thing very common and simple “NO ONE CAN ENTER IN YOUR HOUSE(HOME) WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION”, its only can possible if you are sleeping or they are intentionally invited. This was not the first time was have faced such attack but the situation is still same. Still they are thinking “PUBLIC KA KYA HAI? PEHLE CHILLAYENGE-FIR THAK JAYENGE-FIR BHUL JAYENGE”.
Wise or otherwise we all are responsible and if we have categorized them as terrorists than i must say we also belong to same category. We all are a part of an organization created by god or any natural power and we all are having some protocols to follow. There is nothing like destiny or NASEEB, its all about how we live our life and again our way of thinking matters.
Roadside, bus stops, railway station, home, public places, holy places; every where we all are trying to secure a piece of land for us, but we all are a part of static-dynamic life cycle. We can not have anything permanent with us. What will they get if they kill us? And what will we lose if we won’t resist? These two questions are hidden solutions of problems.
A just born baby is not having any particular caste or protocol to live. And we all are child of that natural power. So all we can do is self security.We should have our own rule and own ways to live and chase our life.THE JUNGLE rule is the solution. Kill to save your life. God has made a house called earth; we have to put some efforts to make it home a sweet home.There is no space for second chance so keep trying. Either live the race or just leave the race. That’s it.
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