Way of thinking!!!

This world is alive but not independent…we all are dependant on each other…
We generally follow the way which is guided by someone else…When a baby join a school his parents ask numbers of people about schools and all but they don’t have their own decision…it happens in college even. A final year student was asked by a faculty that where he wants him self after five years and what is his goal…He was speechless and after a while he said yet not decided…Fault is not the thing…The thing is dependency on other. Most of us have seen the movie “LAKHSYA”...We enjoyed it and appreciated to but what was the message? It was a reality which is found among we people…Our minds are not stable…We wants to do everything rather than a particular…Someone cleared CAT and got admission in M.B.A so I will go for CAT…But that’s not the way of thinking…We generally wait for someone’s guidance whatever it will be true or not but we will follow…When we see something good in movie we will start sailing ship of that…I have experienced…I went to theater for “RANG DE BASDANTI”…Awesome movie no doubt but when I was on my way one fellow was shouting that the boy who was there in last scene will be a great politician…But he was an actor rather than a student…I found some groups who decided to do something for country but after few day KRISH came and that super hero mania came and than DHOOM-2…
So the thing is that we can not decide something different …we don’t have our own thinking…I am engineer and poet too but people can easily accept me as an engineer but not as a poet because in that way I am different from others…AMITABH JI is helping for POLIO group…So people will go to booth because of them…If AMITABHJI will say don’t go than people will not go for it for sure…So it’s a mania rather than a reality…

The thing is we have to change our nature…We have to develop our own thinking and should be independent in thinking…An 20 years old boy was asking to his father “Dad for which party I should vote?” …He is matured enough but still dependent…So something should be change…For us and our future…We people are leaving our lives just for formality not for satisfaction…WHAT HE/SHE WILL THINK? This question is embracing the generation…I can clean my room, what will my friend think? And same stories…So have to increase our confidence level...its must for us…That’s it…

that's life!!!

It happens in the life several times that we feel bad for the same reason couple of time…Things on the earth are dynamic in most of the cases…When we born we cried because this earth was new for us , we were scared…Than after some years we joined school, at that time we again feel bad because we have to leave our life and change our life according to the atmosphere…Than primary-secondary and all…The main thing is that we people can not accept something new in our life so easily…parents, friends , teachers , love , place everything in our life will resist us when we are on our way towards destiny…When I joined college I was feeling not comfortable with new people, different culture, different medium and thinking were also different…I was feeling low and missing my school stuffs and same feeling I was feeling when I was in the school…So the thing is we can not balance our atmosphere in new place ,with new people so easily…We are scared not because the time is new but because the people with whom we were comfortable will not be there with us…We feel bad because the “BYE_BYE” day is so near or I have to leave my family and all…

So what I want to say is – life is flowing like a cycle so may be one day will come when you will meet your school friends , college friends but you know what at that time you will miss them who currently there in your life…when a girl become married and when she will come to his house she will worry about her husband and his family … she will not allow her self to stay for few more days…so its human nature and life is always like this…

So don’t worries let the time play its role and keep running in retrace, at some instants we will again meet and the day will again come when we have to leave for new land with old memories…that’s it…

Does the word "BAD" or "GOOD" exists???

In our life thousands of time it happens that someone stop us and say its bad thing…It’s not your culture and all…One thing is coming in my mind that does the word “BAD” exists? Or does the word “GOOD” exists?
We always believe in the thing we know …We will support the knowledge we have but its not valid all the time…Generally we will follow the trend, the crowd…If 100 people will say you that smoking is a BAD thing than you will join them and will start sailing the same ship…I don’t smoke, don’t drink, I never gone through “TOBBACCO”, it doe not mean that those are bad things or habit so I don’t or I didn’t…Its always depends on our thinking…We generally choose the way where we know the destination…If we will find shortcuts on highway than also we will prefer the way we know why? Because we don’t want to be unique in the case where we have lack of knowledge…

I have a group of friends where all have habit of smoking. I always stop them but should I stop them because I don like? Is it valid to stop them? I think its not…When the word “PERSONALITY” comes in action we will start talking about clothes and vocabulary and all…So in that case we want our self to be the unique than what in this case?

We should remove the cover of trend and culture and we should do what we like rather than what people wanted me to do…we generally say “DON’T INTERFERE” when someone is advising us for the thing we like the most…So these is the same case and we should behave in the same way…I am not saying that the selection should be good or bad but the selection should satisfy yourself… But one thing I want to make clear is that you should not attract by the thing which is going around you. means someone was saying me that I have started smoking because of my love…Its not at all because of anyone it is because of your run with the world…You don’t want anyone in your life who will say oh fish this man is a looser, he cant smoke, he cant drink…Means you want to prove your self among your group, to show something to your lover…But than it will become a case of negative motivation rather than a Habit…

So do what your soul wants to do but don’t follow the trend or you should not inspire by your surroundings…that’s it…..

The word "LUCK"

Sometimes back I have read an article …it said that people in India are dependant on luck, destiny… these two words are pillars of Indian culture…

I was lost in thoughts and I realized its bitter but a very much true line…In our nation we people are highly believe in god it’s a good thing but than luck and destiny come in our mind…From our born to the death we all are sailing ships of luck and destiny…someone wants a boy but he got girl so he started crying and blaming his luck for that…We are less practical if I want to make clear than…we generally believe in stars and when we will read news paper in the morning we will read our fortune first for sure…failed in exam than its because of luck…everywhere I found luck with higher priority…

In our country farmer is our father and we have a big section of farmers and cunningness is they all are highly believe in luck…when someone will die suddenly than people will say ah, bad luck…

Words “LUCK”, “NASEEB”,”DESTINY” are created to define something which is eternal but we used them in wrong way…
We need to be practical rather than emotional…In my own family this luck factor affects a lot…but we can’t do anything you know why? Because it’s my “BADLUCK”…

Why I was not allowed!!!

When I was a baby, dad and me went to temple…It was very first time I visited temple…I had new pair of shoes in my feet and I loved them a lot…Dad was forcing me to leave it outside but I was not allowing him…when I entered inside the temple I found “PADUKAS” means shoes of god made by wood , I asked dad about it and I started crying and shouting that you are a cheated why god is allowed if I am not…all people were laughing may be coz of my innocence but still that question is there deep inside me that why some limitations are there for us…Generally people say that “God is inside you”… Than why I was not allowed at that age…Now a days rules are important rather than feelings…Holiness is not important but rules are made for us not for them who created those rules…

May be God is laughing on me right now for such a silly question but the answer which I want is not that much easy…when this will read by people they will start talking about culture and rules but if I will say my feelings are pure so shoes are not a matter than they will laugh and defiantly argue that your father and your grandfather were not allowed for the same because rules are rules and culture is culture…..

“God if you are listening than please reply is it important for you k when we will come to you we must have remove our shoe out side? If it is like that than when I will come to you I want your shoes out side the temple because God you know Rules are rules and culture is culture…huh……

Philosophy!!!

Difference between “peace” and “panic”


Peace :-“Very dark night and you are standing at sea-shore and cold waves of sea are touching your feet and feel which will reach to your heart and when your mind will feel relax than that moment, that feel is called “peace”…”
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Panic:-“when the same water of wave will go back to the sea and when it will try to pull you inside the sea at that time speed of your heart beats will increase like anything and your mind will touch the door of death and at time your blood will become cold and this situation is called “panic”…”