Oh! Dear time,
Sweetness of memories; that’s all what you have given”
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A just born baby named “2012” is securing her initial breaths inside our laps. Opportunities are rushing towards us. Last year went amazingly. Series of uncertainties, we all have faced in our lives. Failure, success, happiness, sadness, isolation, togetherness; these are few chapters that we have updated as far as book of our life is concerned. Last year especially for me was like a magic bag. The more I tried to solve the mystery the more mysterious the bag had become. But these uncertainties have taught me the actual idea behind the life. Life is not about what you live, its more about how you live the situation you are not comfortable with.
My dear friends, life is like a carom board; just like the Queen, When a baby opens his/her eyes, he/she would be surrounded by people we call family, friends, well-wisher, care takers etc.. but eventually, moment by moment, day by day, year by year, age by age; the crowd disappears and at the end of your life, all alone, you have to deal with the another journey we call it death.
Life is like a rubber band; the longer we stretch it the harder it hurts us back. Don’t stretch your life for anything. Don’t conclude and categorize anything in your life. A thing or a living being; they come they go. We cannot hold them in our hands just like silica; the more we try to hold it, the more it sinks from the gap between the fingers. You cannot make people, you just can make relations, you can just make attachments, you just can make bonds; you are just a maker and not a holder. You can’t stop anything just like time. So don’t regret for any jerk, don’t cry for any pain, don’t apologize for anything that was not in your hands, don’t ruin your life for anything which was not meant to be for you, don’t over react on any failure, don’t over joy for any success, be neutral, be original, be like your own life; unique, controlled and confident.
Two individual souls are like a guitar and a hand; though they both are original, though they both are pure, though they both are made for each other; it’s all about the composition of right rhymes at the right time for the right person in the right way. You cannot be so sure that the guitar would remain with hand forever. It’s all about time. Throughout the life; any individual lives a table tennis ball’s life. He/she is being used by two sides of life; dreams and realities. The moment he/she reaches to dreams, dream smash the being so tightly and throw him/her towards the reality. Somehow or anyhow the soul digests the reality but, the moment the soul gains the capacity to digest the smash and the reality; reality forces him/her to start dreaming. That’s the way we live our life. That’s the way we have to live our life.
In past 365 days, most of us have cherished success, digested failure, enjoyed togetherness, pampered isolation; but in any of these situations, idea of life is to give us experience or better I call it maturity. We grow with ages, we grow with time. Adjustment to live with is always easier then Adjustment to live without. But end of the day, when we conclude, we gain experience. Everything that comes to you; comes with equal importance; but when I used the word importance, I did not mean that the thing would stay along with you the whole life. It appears to get disappeared. Among 365 days of any year, initial 360 days are like 360 degrees of a circle we call it life; degree to degree-point to point; the more we move the more we gain the experience and on the day of Christmas, with all the blessing and love; god grants us 5 days to conclude, to observer, to overcome, to avoid, to accept, to revisit and above all to experience the life with all different chapters I have mentioned and finally, we adopt, we gain; a new day, a new starting point, another chance to repair all the mistakes, another chance to revisit all the achievement, a starting point of another journey; we call it “new year evening”
Forgiveness is the flower of god, so it should be given and not to be sold. Remember one thing: - no one is considered bad by doing bad things but by choosing wrong time. It’s all about motive and not about the intention and my dear friend, though many have hurt you, tough people have given you pain, tears and thousands of reasons to cry in last year; don’t expect their apologies. Just give them the forgiveness. Don’t lock souls in the cage of misunderstandings, hard feelings, dislikes and expectations; just grant them what they deserve: - freedom. Open the cage and let birds fly in the sky of freedom. They shall come back; they shall join you in your journey. You are a tree of your own world. Let these birds shape their nests over your branches. Enlarge your branches and not the shadow. And ask for apology for all those harsh, tough moments that they have received from you intentionally or unintentionally. Deal with your problems they way you deal with your comfort. The more your problems would mind you, the more your problems will find you. Restart your life, seize all 365 degrees again. Keep giving love, keep giving happiness, keep giving togetherness, keep giving comfort, and keep giving life. A giver is always a GOD: - “Giver of Destiny, Giver Of desire”.
A Very happy new year to you and your family. May god bless you with all the happiness and success. Be a learner and perform like a stunner.
God Bless you,
Always Sparkle.
~Maulik Trivedi
