Way of thinking!!!

This world is alive but not independent…we all are dependant on each other…
We generally follow the way which is guided by someone else…When a baby join a school his parents ask numbers of people about schools and all but they don’t have their own decision…it happens in college even. A final year student was asked by a faculty that where he wants him self after five years and what is his goal…He was speechless and after a while he said yet not decided…Fault is not the thing…The thing is dependency on other. Most of us have seen the movie “LAKHSYA”...We enjoyed it and appreciated to but what was the message? It was a reality which is found among we people…Our minds are not stable…We wants to do everything rather than a particular…Someone cleared CAT and got admission in M.B.A so I will go for CAT…But that’s not the way of thinking…We generally wait for someone’s guidance whatever it will be true or not but we will follow…When we see something good in movie we will start sailing ship of that…I have experienced…I went to theater for “RANG DE BASDANTI”…Awesome movie no doubt but when I was on my way one fellow was shouting that the boy who was there in last scene will be a great politician…But he was an actor rather than a student…I found some groups who decided to do something for country but after few day KRISH came and that super hero mania came and than DHOOM-2…
So the thing is that we can not decide something different …we don’t have our own thinking…I am engineer and poet too but people can easily accept me as an engineer but not as a poet because in that way I am different from others…AMITABH JI is helping for POLIO group…So people will go to booth because of them…If AMITABHJI will say don’t go than people will not go for it for sure…So it’s a mania rather than a reality…

The thing is we have to change our nature…We have to develop our own thinking and should be independent in thinking…An 20 years old boy was asking to his father “Dad for which party I should vote?” …He is matured enough but still dependent…So something should be change…For us and our future…We people are leaving our lives just for formality not for satisfaction…WHAT HE/SHE WILL THINK? This question is embracing the generation…I can clean my room, what will my friend think? And same stories…So have to increase our confidence level...its must for us…That’s it…

that's life!!!

It happens in the life several times that we feel bad for the same reason couple of time…Things on the earth are dynamic in most of the cases…When we born we cried because this earth was new for us , we were scared…Than after some years we joined school, at that time we again feel bad because we have to leave our life and change our life according to the atmosphere…Than primary-secondary and all…The main thing is that we people can not accept something new in our life so easily…parents, friends , teachers , love , place everything in our life will resist us when we are on our way towards destiny…When I joined college I was feeling not comfortable with new people, different culture, different medium and thinking were also different…I was feeling low and missing my school stuffs and same feeling I was feeling when I was in the school…So the thing is we can not balance our atmosphere in new place ,with new people so easily…We are scared not because the time is new but because the people with whom we were comfortable will not be there with us…We feel bad because the “BYE_BYE” day is so near or I have to leave my family and all…

So what I want to say is – life is flowing like a cycle so may be one day will come when you will meet your school friends , college friends but you know what at that time you will miss them who currently there in your life…when a girl become married and when she will come to his house she will worry about her husband and his family … she will not allow her self to stay for few more days…so its human nature and life is always like this…

So don’t worries let the time play its role and keep running in retrace, at some instants we will again meet and the day will again come when we have to leave for new land with old memories…that’s it…