It happens in the life several times that we feel bad for the same reason couple of time…Things on the earth are dynamic in most of the cases…When we born we cried because this earth was new for us , we were scared…Than after some years we joined school, at that time we again feel bad because we have to leave our life and change our life according to the atmosphere…Than primary-secondary and all…The main thing is that we people can not accept something new in our life so easily…parents, friends , teachers , love , place everything in our life will resist us when we are on our way towards destiny…When I joined college I was feeling not comfortable with new people, different culture, different medium and thinking were also different…I was feeling low and missing my school stuffs and same feeling I was feeling when I was in the school…So the thing is we can not balance our atmosphere in new place ,with new people so easily…We are scared not because the time is new but because the people with whom we were comfortable will not be there with us…We feel bad because the “BYE_BYE” day is so near or I have to leave my family and all…
So what I want to say is – life is flowing like a cycle so may be one day will come when you will meet your school friends , college friends but you know what at that time you will miss them who currently there in your life…when a girl become married and when she will come to his house she will worry about her husband and his family … she will not allow her self to stay for few more days…so its human nature and life is always like this…
So don’t worries let the time play its role and keep running in retrace, at some instants we will again meet and the day will again come when we have to leave for new land with old memories…that’s it…
In our life thousands of time it happens that someone stop us and say its bad thing…It’s not your culture and all…One thing is coming in my mind that does the word “BAD” exists? Or does the word “GOOD” exists?
We always believe in the thing we know …We will support the knowledge we have but its not valid all the time…Generally we will follow the trend, the crowd…If 100 people will say you that smoking is a BAD thing than you will join them and will start sailing the same ship…I don’t smoke, don’t drink, I never gone through “TOBBACCO”, it doe not mean that those are bad things or habit so I don’t or I didn’t…Its always depends on our thinking…We generally choose the way where we know the destination…If we will find shortcuts on highway than also we will prefer the way we know why? Because we don’t want to be unique in the case where we have lack of knowledge…
I have a group of friends where all have habit of smoking. I always stop them but should I stop them because I don like? Is it valid to stop them? I think its not…When the word “PERSONALITY” comes in action we will start talking about clothes and vocabulary and all…So in that case we want our self to be the unique than what in this case?
We should remove the cover of trend and culture and we should do what we like rather than what people wanted me to do…we generally say “DON’T INTERFERE” when someone is advising us for the thing we like the most…So these is the same case and we should behave in the same way…I am not saying that the selection should be good or bad but the selection should satisfy yourself… But one thing I want to make clear is that you should not attract by the thing which is going around you. means someone was saying me that I have started smoking because of my love…Its not at all because of anyone it is because of your run with the world…You don’t want anyone in your life who will say oh fish this man is a looser, he cant smoke, he cant drink…Means you want to prove your self among your group, to show something to your lover…But than it will become a case of negative motivation rather than a Habit…
So do what your soul wants to do but don’t follow the trend or you should not inspire by your surroundings…that’s it…..
We always believe in the thing we know …We will support the knowledge we have but its not valid all the time…Generally we will follow the trend, the crowd…If 100 people will say you that smoking is a BAD thing than you will join them and will start sailing the same ship…I don’t smoke, don’t drink, I never gone through “TOBBACCO”, it doe not mean that those are bad things or habit so I don’t or I didn’t…Its always depends on our thinking…We generally choose the way where we know the destination…If we will find shortcuts on highway than also we will prefer the way we know why? Because we don’t want to be unique in the case where we have lack of knowledge…
I have a group of friends where all have habit of smoking. I always stop them but should I stop them because I don like? Is it valid to stop them? I think its not…When the word “PERSONALITY” comes in action we will start talking about clothes and vocabulary and all…So in that case we want our self to be the unique than what in this case?
We should remove the cover of trend and culture and we should do what we like rather than what people wanted me to do…we generally say “DON’T INTERFERE” when someone is advising us for the thing we like the most…So these is the same case and we should behave in the same way…I am not saying that the selection should be good or bad but the selection should satisfy yourself… But one thing I want to make clear is that you should not attract by the thing which is going around you. means someone was saying me that I have started smoking because of my love…Its not at all because of anyone it is because of your run with the world…You don’t want anyone in your life who will say oh fish this man is a looser, he cant smoke, he cant drink…Means you want to prove your self among your group, to show something to your lover…But than it will become a case of negative motivation rather than a Habit…
So do what your soul wants to do but don’t follow the trend or you should not inspire by your surroundings…that’s it…..
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