Every tear drop has a reason. we all are a part of natural cycle but We humans are born unsatisfied creatures. We always run behind something unaffordable, impossible or useless.
If you ask someone about the most important thing of life he will become philosopher and his philosophical soul will start explain the definition of importance flawlessly.
Mostly our answer will be related to education, money, status, oxygen (from my damaged brain) and so many things and practically its fact, we can not live without the things i have mentioned above.
In today’s era there are mainly two races exist.
1. Retrace
2. Race between money and education.
Retrace is the race between hunger and hard work. Every single person is running, working, struggling for his own hunger and needs. So now it’s become a race called “RETRACE”.
Few decades back people were rich enough to get, to achieve their dreams goals and emotions.
But at that time, education was not so important as way of thinking and expectations were limited. Because we all are farmer’s children and so we have to face all kind of struggle and hurdles. If you will compare our past with the present, you won’t find a single change in behaviour, thinking, expectation and dream just life style has changed. Only one change is there and that change has changed entire life of ambitious people.
At present if you want to dream something, you have to dream something affordable. Our dreams are now limited to our lifestyle, our expenses, our needs.
Yes dreams can also be unaffordable. Today we have departed our society with several parts.
Middle class, upper middle class, lower middle class and many more. A middle class family can’t pay for his child’s future. A statement you may heard around “ Only a doctor’s son can be a doctor now” . Why money is so important. A boy with ability cannot be a pioneer if he or his father don’t have few pieces of paper we called money.
I am so surprised when you are talking about a cultural country like India when we have departed this country on the basis of money. From PRIME MINISTER to PA, no one is bothering to fund those who all really deserve something good and who all are capable to achieve heights. I always feel bad when prime minister comes to our city and go to only those schools where all children and management belong to a rich background. There is no use of culture when our minds are behaving like vultures.
In every single book with mythological touch, you fill find definition of education without any expectations from teacher or institute, GURU DAKSHINA is a cultural to respect your teacher.
But what now, at present?
GURUS are now so fashionable and you know this world is advanced now so everything should be in the way the world is. This is what our so called GURUS think. So this advance payment thing is introduced. If world is became advanced, why still we can find 10 12 years old child at tea stall, why they don’t go to school? Why they are working at this age? Because of money? No. They are poor of money, and we are poor of mind.
This discussion has no and every one would have different opinions. But something to think. Something should be done. Otherwise one day will come when you would get a degree of doctorate, engineering or commerce nearby shop if you will be able to pay the money they want and it will be the day before destruction, death of education. Dead body of education.
That’s it...
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“A fifteen years old boy cleaning a room of a rich business man and watching him playing cricket in his own ground. And dual emotions on his face and in his heart laughing on his destiny and at the same time crying on his destiny.
If I ask you to tell me the name of person with whom you can talk for hours, with whom you can share every single moment of your life anytime, in any situation than you will count lots of names but please concentrate on the word “ANYTIME”. Just think are you always feeling the same free and relaxed secured with the person you are talking about? Practically no. Sometimes a person feels, he is not comfortable while talking with a particular person and he avoids that person. Many times it happens that we can't talk properly with our family members, elders and younger too…Some days back I was sitting with my friend and he was so much disturbed because of a fight with his dad…He was arguing that communication gap between my friend and his father is increasing day by day…That time I was just speechless because he was comparing communication between A son and his father. He was blaming his grandfather for the same. He was arguing that because of his grand father he and his father are upset and fighting. I reached home and got lost in thoughts…Was it a valid reason from him? Was his grand father only the reason? ”COMMUNICATION GAP” and “GENERATION GAP”…these two words are very much famous in youngsters today. Mom-dad resist me in the entire thing and it’s because of my grandfather. What he was trying to say is; His grandfather is very much narrow minded and so his father is. Generally our grand parents are having very different thinking and point of views with respect to us. It’s a common thing. Let me give you an example. Compare your self with a student who is studying in same school, same collage in which you were studying few years back. Compare your way of thinking with him and you will get the answer and reasons of such kind of variations and gaps. He was arguing that he wants a big home a long car and his father is not interested because of his grandfather. His grand father argues in small things and because of his grandfather he is not getting things he actually wants and deserves. I was shocked when I heard this. It’s not a case of communication gap or generation gap. When I was taking tuition; several times it happened that my students were arguing and not agreeing with my points. They were having their own different thinking and views as compared to me. So it’s a case of different thinking rather than communication gap. What I think is your thinking and behavior is very much dependant on your surroundings, your friend circles. It’s very much reliable on life style you’re living. Present is always well manufactured and well maintained than past. What you or I want in my future? Better life and better surroundings. What is the meaning of “better”. Its nothing but comparatively more matured and more flexible, more comfortable life with compare to the present life.my friend’s wishes I think were because of his friend circle …May be his friends belong to high class family and because his father is not fulfilling his wishes he is not happy…I think he should not blame his father or grandfather for anything…We generally compare our present with someone’s present and compare our past with someone’s past…We can dream but we can’t say it’s must for you to fulfill my wishes…Conclusion is we should live according to our culture not according to the trend…It may possible that your friend is not facing problems which you are facing but it doesn’t mean his family is better than yours…And yes a father is a bridge between grandfather and grandson…So its parent's duty to keep away their young ones from some family problems or better say misunderstandings…Because a baby will speak what he is listening…That’s it….
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